ALAN TOLIVER

Alan K. Toliver, 81, of Ewing, Mo., went to be with his Lord and Savior at on August 24, 2025, at Blessing Hospital in Quincy, Ill.
Alan was born on January 21, 1944, to Albert Toliver and Helen Shouse Toliver. He married Loretta Toliver on March 14, 1964, in Ewing, Mo. She survives. 
Alan dedicated his life to the community he so dearly loved. As the former Mayor of Ewing, Alan’s leadership was felt in everything from his service as Alderman, Fire and Rescue, to being a member of the Lewis County School Board. In 1971, he founded the Twelve Point Gun Club. He also owned and operated the Cougar Den in Ewing, Mo. As a farmer, he was as robust and dependable as the Ford and Massey Ferguson machines he admired, and his reputation as a Custom Harvester spread far and wide. His connection to the land was deep, matching the resolve and strength of his cattle, hogs and the sturdiness of his preferred Gleaner Combines.
Alan’s adventurous spirit led him to savor life’s thrills, participating in snow mobile races on Quincy Bay and riding dirt bikes. His passion for travel saw him touring the country on his Honda Gold Wing with Loretta by his side. He enjoyed seeing the mountains of Colorado, the grandeur of Montana, and the beauty of Glacier Park.
A man of gentle humor and wisdom, Alan’s conversation was a gift—he was famously the last to speak, choosing to listen intently before sharing his thoughts. Equipped with quick wit and a kind, easy-going nature, he garnered trust and friendship and was known as the best listener, always available for a heart-to-heart. Those who knew him valued his presence at town gatherings, where he was a constant figure of support and generosity.
In his quieter moments, Alan found joy in nostalgia, keeping his childhood toys in pristine condition. A regular at Johnny’s, his laughter and stories were as much a part of the establishment as the walls that housed them. His love for simpler pastimes, whether watching kids play baseball and softball, enjoying old game shows like Wheel of Fortune or classic western like Gunsmoke, or participating in trap shoots—reflected his appreciation for the fundamental joys of life.
The harmonies of the Gaither’s, the Statler Brothers, Alan Jackson, and various Gospel were always welcome tunes.
Alan leaves behind a town enriched by his presence, a community fortified by his work, and a multitude of hearts warmed by the memories of a man whose life was as significant as it was beautifully lived.
Alan was a longtime church member of the Ewing Assembly of God and a Christian by Faith.
Survivors include his wife, daughter, Andrea (Randy) Lay of Palmyra, Mo., grandchildren, Adam Lay, Ashley (Tommy) Hendren, brother, Kenneth Toliver, nephews, Dennis Toliver, Larry Toliver, Gregg Walker and numerous other family and friends.
Alan was preceded in death by his parents, sister, Emma Bugh and Father and Mother in-law, Urban and Ruth Hudson.
Funeral Services will be held at 10:00 a.m., Friday, August 29, 2025, at the Ball-Davis Funeral Home in Ewing, Mo. Pastor Marty Smyser will officiate. Burial will follow at Lutheran Cemetery in Ewing, Mo.
Friends and Family are invited to Alan’s Life Celebration at a visitation that will be held from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m., Thursday, August 28, 2025, at the Ball-Davis Funeral Home in Ewing, Mo.
Pallbearers: Sonny Klocke, Randy Klocke, Dennis Carter, Dean Wagy, John O’Brien, Jeff Smith, Brad Hudson, and Kerry Abell.  Honorary pallbearers: Wayne and Mary Snodgrass, Matt and Linda Eichor, Bob and Sandee Wallace, Les Edmondson, Steve and Janet Tucker and Kenneth and Dorothy Goings.
Memorial contributions may be made to the Twelve Point Gun Club or Donor’s Choice.
Arrangements are under the direction of the Ball-Davis Funeral Home in Ewing, Mo.